Just because we’re all grown up (at least I pretend to be), doesn’t mean we can’t play games. And, no, I don’t mean head-games; those never turn out well. I’m talking about the one that was such a hit on the playground when we were kids. It’s time for a round of “Mother May I?, Adult Edition” (and minus the Mother part).
Tonight, switch up the routine a bit by asking your guy’s permission before everything you do. For example, before unbuttoning his shirt, look him in the eyes and say, “May I undo your shirt?”
He may seem startled at first, but wait until he says yes and then take it off. Then ask him if he’d mind if you kiss his lips, chest, neck or shoulder.
You can take it as far as you’d like (’cause I’m pretty sure he’s not gonna be the one to stop you). The trick to the game is that he has to approve before you make your move.
All you need to do is frame it to him in a question so he knows what you’re going to do to him next. It will make him crazy with anticipation, and he’ll looove that you’re asking him for his consent.